Men suck!
We took this picture mid-March but it's the one I think that shows the real me.
Today, I'm wearing a new pink shirt that shows off some cleavage, shorts, sandals, a bracelet, and a necklace. Do you think I can get a guy to notice me? 
Hell no! Seems like the only guys I can ever get to notice me are creepy construction workers that make me wish my father was around to protect me.
I'm not a bad person. Really, I'm not. I'm smart. I'm funny. I'd like to think I'm cute. I'm probably one of the most loyal people out there. And what does it get me? It gets me sitting here whining that I'm just as single as I was when I was 13.
It's even more depressing if I stop and think about some peers, especially the ugly ones, of mine from the past are married and I'm stuck here living at home.
Maybe nuns have the right idea. But, I don't want to be a nun. I don't want to be a slut, either. I just want to be a happy person in love. It that so wrong?
Apparently, it is. So, I give up trying to impress the opposite gender.
Posted by Shawn at April 4, 2005 10:53 AM in Flickr Photos, General.
I swear, we must be the same person because I go through the same stuff.
And you are very pretty. i'm not gonna say the whole "you'll find someone if you're not looking", because i think that's bull. but i'm telling you this, if you lived up here you would get attention from the good sort of man, not the nasty old, gold teeth, thug, trash type.
Not all marriages are happy--so it would be somewhat erroneous to assume that all married people are better off than you are. Anyways, don't mind cynical ol' me--there's nothing wrong with wanting to be happy and in love. Those are two things almost everyone is looking for. Some people just happen to find it sooner. You'll find someone--just don't give up hope.
Posted by: sya at April 4, 2005 8:37 PMI think you're very cute...but don't worry about trying to attract guys...its usually only the yucky ones that get attracted. I think the good guys tends to be a stroke of luck. And you're very smart and seem like you're a lot of fun...the guys just don't know what they're missing
this has nothing to do with this post but i thought you'd like to know that Nicholas Sparks will be signing books in Savannah, on Saturday, April 16h at Sam's (does that mean Sam's Club or is that a particular bookstore?) Anyway, yeah, you should go. His new book, True Believer, hits bookshelves next week!
Posted by: misbah kyrene at April 5, 2005 11:49 AMThank you everyone for the comments. I'm feeling much better now. Damn Aunt Flo! Why does she do this to me? I didn't even mention that on Sunday, I cried because I couldn't find a pair of shorts. I cried over shorts! After talking to some other girls today and yesterday, I'm feeling WAY better about myself.
And Misbah, I was JUST at Sam's yesterday and the poster greeted me on my way in! I told my dad I wanted, I needed to attend that event. I think that would be SO cool! 
I went thru this myself after my divorce was final and I started dating again. Just go see my blog archives...depressing stuff.
Enjoy yourself. Being married is hard work. I myself would recommend a LONG engagement once you find the one!!
At about the time that I finally was content with my life, and had resigned myself to "being alone" and thinking...that is okay! I met "him." So try not to be down... enjoy yourself... enjoy your interests at your own pace... and he will show up.
Posted by: Christy at April 6, 2005 7:45 PM
